CHANGE. WHAT? WHO?

YOU CAN DO ONE OF TWO THINGS ABOUT ANY SITUATION.  YOU CAN CHANGE THE SITUATION OR YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR PERCEPTION.  BOTH OF THESE OPTIONS, ARE WORTH A TRY.  I SEE PEOPLE GET LIVID OVER SOME THINGS, AND HONESTLY, THERE'S NO REASON TO.  SOME THINGS, YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE, AND YOU SHOULD, IF NOTHING ELSE AT LEAST ATTEMPT.  OTHER THINGS, YOU SIMPLY CANNOT CHANGE, AND THAT'S WHERE YOU JUST CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE ABOUT IT.  IT IS, WHAT IT IS, IS A VERY REAL PERCEPTION, AND ALSO SANITY SAVING.  NOW, SOME PEOPLE GO OVERBOARD ON BOTH ACCOUNTS, AND GET UBER VIGILANT ABOUT CHANGING THINGS, OR THEY GET SUPER LAX ABOUT EVERYTHING.  BOTH ATTITUDES, CAN BE DETRIMENTAL, IF YOU HAVEN'T PROPERLY UNDERSTOOD THE EFFECT THOSE DECISIONS HAVE ON YOURSELF AND OTHERS.  THE POINT OF CHANGE, IS TO FIND BALANCE, WITHIN YOURSELF.  CHANGE IS ABOUT MAKING YOURSELF BETTER, AND IN TURN MAKING YOU BETTER TO OTHERS.  SOMETIMES WE ALL GET CAUGHT UP IN THE MOMENT, THAT WE FORGET THE TRUE PERSPECTIVE OF BEING OBJECTIVE.  SOMETIMES, IT JUST IS AND WILL ALWAYS BE, AND THE FIGHT IS CAUSING TURMOIL WITHIN AND TO OTHERS AROUND YOU.  THAT IS THE TIME, WHEN YOU EVALUATE WHETHER OR NOT THE GAIN IS WORTH THE STRUGGLE REALLY.  SOMETIMES, IT IS AND SHOULDN'T BE, YET YOU IDLY SIT AND ALLOW THIS ANGER TO BUILD, INSTEAD OF ATTEMPTING TO CHANGE THINGS DUE TO A PERCEIVED LACK OF POWER WHICH MAKES LIFE UNCOMFORTABLE FOR YOURSELF, AND THOSE AROUND YOU.  DO OR ACCEPT.