SEXY? (FROM A FELLAS' EYES)

SO, NOT TOO LONG AGO, I DID A PIECE ON NATURAL BEAUTY AND HOW WOMEN SHOULD ALLOW THEIR NATURAL BEAUTY TO SHINE THRU AND MERELY ACCENT WITH MAKEUP.  BY ALLOWING YOURSELF TO BE WHO YOU ARE BEHIND THE MASK, THEN THE MASK IS LESS NECESSARY.  TODAY, I WILL ADDRESS SEXINESS AS IT WERE, AND HOW IT APPLIES TO ANY FEMALE REALLY.  NOW, I KNOW AS A MAN, SOME MAY FEEL I HAVE NO RIGHT AS A MAN TO DICTATE WHAT SEXY IS TO A WOMAN, BUT, MAYBE I CAN CLARIFY SOME THINGS.

MEN, ARE SIMPLE, FOR THE MOST PART.  ON THE ISSUE OF SEX, IT IS SAID THAT WE LITERALLY THINK ABOUT SEX ALL DAY, WHEREAS A WOMAN, LESS SO.  I DON'T KNOW IF THAT'S TRUE, WELL MAYBE.  SO IN THE FIRST PLACE, ATTEMPTING TO BE SEXY IS NOT ALL TOO DIFFICULT, CONSIDERING MEN ARE THINKING OF SEX ALREADY.  HALF THE WORK IS ALREADY DONE BY THE FELLAS.  SO, THEN THE APPEARANCE OF SEXINESS COMES INTO PLAY.  NOW, THIS IS WHERE THINGS GET BLURRED ON THE IDEA OF SEXY.  FIRST OFF, WHERE ARE YOU?  IS THERE ALCOHOL AND DRUGS PRESENT?  IF SO, THEN YOU REALLY DON'T HAVE TO TRY TOO HARD.  IF A GUY IS FUCKED UP ENOUGH, HE'LL THINK BIG BIRD IS SEXY.  OF COURSE, THE "SEXIER" YOU APPEAR TO BE, THE MORE ATTENTION YOU WILL GET IN THESE SITUATIONS.  NOW, IF YOU'RE IN A REGULAR NON-PARTY SETTING, YOU ARE DEALING WITH A DIFFERENT SET OF STANDARDS.  THERE ARE NO DRUG/ALCOHOL INDUCED GOGGLES HERE, SO YOU HAVE TO BE MORE STRATEGIC.  NOW, JUST SOME INSIGHT FOR YOU LADIES, FROM A MALE PERSPECTIVE, NOT EVERY WOMAN THAT IS SCANTILY CLAD IS SEXY, AND NOT EVERY WOMAN COVERED FROM HEAD TO TOE, IS IGNORED.

IF IT IS TRUE, THAT MEN DO INDEED THINK ABOUT SEX FOR A SIGNIFICANT PART OF THE DAY, THEN TRUTH IS, IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT YOU WEAR.  OF COURSE, THE LESS YOU WEAR, THE MORE ABOUT SEX WE WILL THINK.  THAT'S NOT STRATEGIC, THAT'S JUST LOGIC AND COMMON SENSE.  SO, WHAT MAKES A WOMAN SEXY THEN, IF IT'S NOT HER OUTER APPEARANCE?  SOME WOMEN, WILL WEAR "SEXY" STRIPPER HEELS, BUT WALK LIKE THEY'RE ON THE EDGE OF A CLIFF, THAT'S NOT SEXY.  HELL, A WOMAN WILL TELL YOU THE SAME THING, SO I THINK I'M ON TRACK HERE.  WHAT DOES MAKE A WOMAN SEXY, IS CONFIDENCE.  NOT ARROGANCE, BUT CONFIDENCE.  SOME WOMEN, GET ARROGANT ABOUT THEIR LOOKS, AND EITHER, IT RUINS THEIR SEXINESS FACTOR, OR THEY HAVE NOTHING TO BE ARROGANT ABOUT IN THE FIRST PLACE.  YOU'LL NOTICE THE LATTER OFTEN TIMES, WHEN A WOMAN IS WEARING SOMETHING THAT IS NOT FLATTERING TO HER FIGURE, OR TOO TIGHT, AND YET SHE'S WALKIN' AROUND LIKE SHE JUST SIGNED A CONTRACT WITH VICTORIA SECRET AND DOESN'T HAVE TIME FOR YOUR NONSENSE.  OR MAYBE THAT IS, JUST HER CONFIDENCE?  ANYWAY, WHAT I'M SAYING IS OUTWARD APPEARANCE DOESN'T ALWAYS JUSTIFY SEXY, NEITHER DOES ATTITUDE.

SEE, WOMEN, BY NATURE ARE SEXY.  THEY ARE THE OPPOSITE SEX.  MEN KNOW, THAT WOMEN ARE THE OTHER HALF OF THE SEXUAL ACT, AND THEREFORE BECOME SEXY BY DEFAULT.  ALL A WOMAN HAS TO DO REALLY TO BE TRULY SEXY, IS ACCEPT HERSELF.  ACCENTUATE HER GOOD POINTS, AND LEARN TO ACCEPT HER NO SO GOOD POINTS.  AS WITH NATURAL BEAUTY, LETTING WHO YOU ARE SHINE THRU FIRST, THEN YOU CAN ACCENT FROM THAT POINT FORWARD.  ONCE YOU ACCEPT YOURSELF AS YOU ARE, THE CONFIDENCE BUILDS FROM THERE.  ARROGANCE IS AN OVERCOMPENSATION OF WHAT IS LACKING, YOU'LL SEE ALOT OF THIS IN MEN.  CONFIDENCE IS SEXY, A WOMAN WHO OWNS HER BODY, OWNS HER SENSUALITY, AND ACCEPTS HER FAULTS BECOMES SEXY.  THAT KIND OF WOMAN, CAN LOOK SEXY, IN JEANS AND A TSHIRT, AN ELEGANT DRESS, OR NAKED.  CONFIDENCE CHANGES, HOW YOU WALK, TALK, ACT, AND APPEAR TO OTHERS.  IT'S HEALTHY FOR THE MIND.

SO NEXT TIME YOU'RE GETTING DOLLED UP TO GO SOMEWHERE, DON'T ATTEMPT TO APPEAR SEXY, LET THE SEXINESS SHINE THRU, BY BEING CONFIDENT.  I GUARANTEE THE GUY YOU'RE LOOKING FOR WILL FIND YOU, AND ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS LET HIM.  BECAUSE....THE GUYS THAT ARE ALL GATHERED AROUND THE HALF NAKED CHICK AT THE BAR, MOST LIKELY ARE THINKING SOLELY ABOUT SEX, AND BEYOND THAT, PROBABLY NOT MUCH ELSE....IS THAT WHAT YOU REALLY WANT?  IF SO, THEN IGNORE THIS ENTIRE ARTICLE.  -  925