OPPRESSIVE PEOPLE SUCK.

SOMETIMES PEOPLE HAVE A HARD TIME DISASSOCIATING THEMSELVES WITH THE EMPTINESS INSIDE OF THEMSELVES AND MAKE IT OTHER PEOPLE'S RESPONSIBILITY, TO FULFILL THAT VOID, BUT IN A WAY THAT THEY CAN CONTROL.  IT IS SIMPLY OPPRESSIVE.  OPPRESSIVE PEOPLE, I HAVE FOUND, ARE USUALLY LIVING IN A SORT OF CHAOTIC WORLD, AND EXUDE A SENSE OF CONTROL BY OPPRESSING THOSE AROUND THEM.  NOW, THIS CHAOS EITHER ACTUALLY EXISTS, OR IS MENTAL CONSTRUCT, AND IT MATTERS NOT TO THE OPPRESSOR.  SOME PEOPLE BECOME OPPRESSIVE, FOR FEAR OF THINGS BECOMING CHAOTIC IN THEIR LIVES.  OPPRESSION, IS QUITE COMMON IN OUR SOCIETY AS WELL.  BOSSES, WILL ATTEMPT TO OPPRESS THEIR EMPLOYEES.  SPOUSES, WILL ATTEMPT TO OPPRESS THEIR PARTNERS.  EVEN PARENTS, WILL ATTEMPT TO OPPRESS THEIR CHILDREN.  MOST PEOPLE DON'T REALIZE THEIR BEING OPPRESSIVE, BECAUSE OPPRESSION IS AN EXTENSION OF A SELFISH MINDSET.  THEY CONSTRUCT IN THEIR MIND, A SCENARIO, IN WHICH THEY ARE VICTIMS, AND NEED TO GAIN CONTROL OF THEIR SITUATION, IN ORDER TO IMPROVE THEIR POSITION OR QUALITY OF LIFE.  OPPRESSIVE PEOPLE SOMETIMES APPEAR TO BE UNDERSTANDING, OR WILL ACT AS IF THEY CARE, BUT, ARE ACTUALLY SIMPLY FILLING A ROLE IN ORDER TO STAY IN CONTROL.

THERE'S A BIG DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BEING OPPRESSIVE AND BEING IN CONTROL, AND THEY ARE OPPOSITE SIDES OF THE SPECTRUM.  BEING IN CONTROL, SIMPLY MEANS, YOU KNOW EVERYTHING FROM THE GOOD, TO THE BAD, TO THE UGLY, AND YOU MAKE DECISIONS ACCORDINGLY.  BEING IN CONTROL REQUIRES RESOLVE, AND A WILLINGNESS TO ALLOW YOUR EGO AND SELF ESTEEM TO STEP ASIDE, SO THAT THE BEST CHOICES BECOME CLEARER.  OPPRESSION IS BASED ON THE PREMISE, THAT THE PERSON IS SEEKING CONTROL, BUT, IS COMPLETELY DRIVEN BY EGO AND SELF ESTEEM.  THE BEST DECISIONS TO THE OPPRESSOR, ARE THE ONES THAT SOLELY BENEFIT THE OPPRESSOR THEMSELVES, OR ANY THEY ARE ALIGNED WITH.  OPPRESSORS, USUALLY RETAIN CONTROL BY ANY MEANS NECESSARY, AND ARE WILLING TO SACRIFICE OTHERS BEFORE EVER CONSIDERING SELF SACRIFICE.  HOWEVER, THEIR GUISE IS USUALLY SHORT LIVED AND THEY ARE EASILY EXPOSED FOR THE WEAK MINDED FOOLS, THAT THEY ARE.  THERE IS ALSO NO CLEAR CUT WAY TO DEAL WITH OPPRESSORS, ASIDE FROM ABSOLUTE TRUTH, AND EVEN THAT WON'T ALWAYS WORK, BECAUSE, OPPRESSORS HAVE WRAPPED THEMSELVES UP IN A COCOON OF DISTORTED TRUTH.  THE ONLY OTHER WAY TO DEAL WITH OPPRESSORS, IS DISTANCE.  OPPRESSIVE PEOPLE ARE DICTATORS, AND TOXIC.  GET AS FAR AWAY FROM THESE TYPES OF PEOPLE, AS YOU CAN, BECAUSE YOU MAY BECOME INFECTED OVER TIME.

OPPRESSION IS EVERYWHERE, AND IT SUCKS.  YOU CAN'T NECESSARILY AVOID ALL OF IT, AND SOME OF IT EXISTS ON A LEVEL YOU SIMPLY CANNOT CONTROL, BUT, IF YOU DARE TO IMPROVE YOUR QUALITY OF LIFE....AVOID IT ON THE LEVELS YOU CAN CONTROL.  OPPRESSION, LEADS TO SUPPRESSION, AND EVENTUAL EXPLOSION OR IMPLOSION, NEITHER OF WHICH, ARE GOOD.  BE FREE FROM OPPRESSION, IT IS NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO CARRY SOMEONE ELSE'S WEAKNESS ON YOUR NECK.  -  925